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š°ļø The Pace You Actually Need
How to tell the difference between being unmotivated and just moving slower.

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Thereās a version of me that wakes up early, makes matcha, and clears her inbox before noon. And then thereās current me - the one who drifts a little, who works in fragments, who needs more pauses than usual.
For a while, I thought something was wrong with that. I kept trying to get back to the āproductiveā version of myself - the one who seemed sharper, faster, better at everything. But lately Iāve been wondering if the point isnāt to get back to her at all. Maybe itās to notice how much my rhythm has changed, and to meet myself there instead.
Last weekās note was about catching the early signs of burnout. This week is about what comes next: that strange in-between space where youāre not exhausted, but youāre not exactly energized either - youāre just moving at a different tempo.
šæ When āSlowā Just Means Different
Energy has seasons. Some are quick and clear, others heavier and more interior. But weāve built this strange idea that our pace should always stay the same ā that if weāre not moving at full speed, weāre somehow off course.
Iāve been trying to pay more attention to the quieter shifts ā the days where my body feels fine but my thoughts feel heavy, or where focus comes in short waves instead of long stretches. Those moments used to frustrate me. Now I try to take them as signals: itās time to recalibrate, not accelerate.
š Letting Go of āCatching Upā
Iāve started to notice how often that phrase slips out of peopleās mouths - āI just need to catch up.ā Itās so common itās almost background noise. The more I hear it, the more I think itās code for something else. Usually it means, āIām uncomfortable with where I am right now.ā
The pace that feels sustainable will always look a little slower than the one that looks impressive. But the sustainable one lasts longer. It lets you stay connected to what youāre actually doing, instead of just sprinting toward relief.
šŖ Noticing Your Real Tempo
Try watching your days with less judgment and more curiosity. When does your focus naturally sharpen? When does it soften? What time of day feels easiest for creative work? When do you crave rest but keep pushing anyway?
You donāt have to measure or optimize it, just notice it. Just pay attention without trying to fix anything. Eventually, your own rhythm starts to reveal itself and you can begin planning around it.
āļø Journal Prompt
What does āenoughā look like at your current pace? If I were to take a full day off for recovery, what would I do? Not your ideal version - the real one youāre in today. Write about what that might feel like if you trusted it instead of fighting it.

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Maybe the point isnāt to get back to your old rhythm at all. Maybe itās to finally make peace with the one thatās here now.
Youāre allowed to change tempo without calling it a setback. Some seasons are meant for building speed. Others are meant for paying attention. Both move you forward ā just in different ways.
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