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A friend texts you: “So proud of you! You’re killing it 💕”
And you smile. Because thank you. Because they mean well.
Because… they don’t see that lately, you’ve been showing up with 30% battery and pretending it’s 90.

You’re still checking boxes. You still make your deadlines.
But there’s a quiet dissonance under it all, like you’re watching your life happen from the back row.
Your energy’s on autopilot. Your ambition feels… foggy. And the worst part? You don’t even know what’s wrong. You just know you’re not all in anymore.

This newsletter is for the quiet quitters, the ones who didn’t leave their jobs, but slowly stopped feeling lit up by the things they used to love. The ones who look fine on the outside. Who are still “doing great.” And who need permission to feel not fine without it meaning they’re failing.

🎭 High-Functioning on the Surface, Hollow on the Inside

There’s a particular burnout that hits high achievers the hardest.
Not the fiery crash. But the slow, sneaky kind that shows up like this:

• 🙂‍↕️ Saying yes to everything because people expect you to.

• 😥 Feeling guilty that you don’t feel grateful enough.

• 😶‍🌫️ Losing the plot of your own dreams because you're stuck performing a version of yourself.

Psychologists call it “functional freeze.”
It’s when your nervous system is overwhelmed, but instead of shutting down completely, you keep going through the motions. You might even seem productive but honestly you’re emotionally checked out. You’re physically tired.

And because you’re still functioning, no one thinks to check in.
So you don’t either.

🧠 You Can’t Heal in Performance Mode

When your default is “I’ve got it,” rest doesn’t always feel intuitive.
Even your downtime becomes performative: posting that you’re “offline,” turning self-care into a checklist, squeezing recovery into 12 hours so you can get back to being “on.”

If you’ve been drifting lately, think of it as a signal. Not everything that slows you down is a problem to fix. Sometimes it’s a pause you needed but never gave yourself permission to take. Instead of pushing through, what would it look like to actually check in (not with your boss or to-do list, but with what still feels meaningful?)

Try starting here:

• Where do I feel most like I’m faking it right now?

• What parts of my identity no longer feel like mine?

• If I could press pause for a week with no consequences, what would I choose to come back to?

You don’t need to burn it all down. But you do need to stop gaslighting your own disinterest. Sometimes, the softest way to come back to yourself is to admit where you’ve already left.

📓 Journal Prompt

“Where in my life am I performing instead of participating?”
(Pay attention to the places where you say “should” more than you say “want.”)

🌊 LifeAt Picks

If your brain’s been in “functional freeze,” try these gentle resets:

• 🧘‍♀️ Soundscape suggestion: Ocean breeze + lofi beats for soft reentry

• 🍅 Pomodoro pairing: 20 min “just get started” block + a calming visual background

• 🎧 Focus playlist: Soft Start Mornings — curated for slow motivation

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